I haven’t had much time to write this week, and now I have some time, I’ve so much to write I don’t know where to begin.
Our wedding was yesterday. It was, as I said, a bloody good party.
As some may have gathered, I have never been one to dream of my future wedding, and generally really dislike the whole idea full stop.
I have changed my mind now, I just don’t like western style weddings. Chinese weddings are really cool.
The first part of this wedding that made it rather more bearable for me was the fact that my only input was choosing a dress and turning up to get measured for it a couple of times.
This being the case, the whole thing was like a great big surprise party. I had been a bit concerned that my Australian family and I would be left bumbling about like idiots as we had no idea what was expected of us or what was going to happen, but all went perfectly.
I don’t think anything could have been done better, it wasn’t stressful for a moment and everyone seemed to have a fantastic time… I want to do it all again!
I was kicked out of the house for a couple of nights so as we could go through the routine of Patrick coming to collect me from my parents and taking me home, so I enjoyed another few nights at my home away from home in our local hotel with the excellent buffet breakfast. Thankfully it was only two nights, as I think the dresses would have required some altering if it had been any longer.
While I was away, the wedding planner and Patrick’s parents came in with their team of helpers and completely transformed our apartment. It was such a lovely surprise to come home and find the place decorated.
I am now typing this surrounded by flowers and red lanterns and double happiness characters on every window, such a cheerful atmosphere. There are even rose petals all over the floor of our bedroom… I might have to pick them up before I vacuum then scatter them again afterwards, I am quite liking them there.
The celebrations were concluded with a Xinjiang style BBQ party in the park this evening, complete with blue fairy lights in all the trees, tables set up alongside the lake, and fireworks along the path behind us.
I don’t have any photos as yet, but will post some soon and write more about our very full two days.